Step 6 AA: Readiness for Change & Letting Go

Step 6: Readiness for Change

"Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character."

Step 6 is about preparation and willingness. It invites us to look at the character traits, patterns, and behaviors that no longer serve us — and become truly ready to let them go. The word “entirely” is powerful. It’s a spiritual turning point where we say: “I’m done living this way.”

🪞What Are Character Defects?

They're not about being a bad person. They’re about recognizing the coping mechanisms — fear, anger, dishonesty, selfishness — that once protected us, but now cause harm. Step 6 is about being willing to trade these for peace, integrity, and grace.

🧠 Reflection Questions

  • What parts of my character continue to create chaos?
  • Am I truly ready to let them go — or am I still holding on?
  • What would my life feel like without those patterns?

✍️ Journaling Prompt

Make a list of the top 5 character traits or habits you’d like to be free from. Reflect on how they’ve served you in the past — and why you’re ready to release them now.

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“Willingness is the key that opens the door to freedom.”


Open journal with pen and coffee — ready for reflection

Why Journaling Supercharges Your Recovery

Journaling for 10 minutes daily reduces stress hormones by 20% and strengthens self-control circuits. In recovery, that means clearer decisions, fewer relapses, and deeper self-awareness.

How to Use These Prompts

When: Morning or evening (5–10 min).
How: Write freely for three sentences per prompt.

Additional Prompts & Examples

  1. “What unexpected gratitude did I feel today?”
    “A stranger’s smile reminded me kindness exists.”
  2. “When did I choose recovery over craving?”
    “I called my sponsor instead of drinking.”
  3. “What self-care act nourished me?”
    “A 10-min walk cleared my mind.”

Free External Resources

Downloadable Journal Template

📥 “Daily Recovery Journal” PDF — coming soon

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