In early recovery, we often hear the phrase "life on life’s terms." While well-intentioned, this phrase is not found in the original 1939 Blueprint . For the alcoholic, simply "accepting life" is rarely enough to prevent the Mental Blank Spot . We need a mechanical shift from self-will to a design for living that relies on a Power greater than ourselves. Acceptance as a Spiritual Tool, Not a Feeling True acceptance in the 12-Step Program is not about liking our circumstances; it is about the Admission of Defeat . We stop fighting everyone and everything. This isn't just about "finding balance"—it is about clearing the channel so that we can function as an instrument of our Higher Power. The Problem: The Self-Will Run Riot When we struggle with "life on life's terms," we are usually struggling with Self-Will Run Riot . Our old self-interest keeps us in a state of conflict with reality. According to the 1939 Blu...
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